The moment of divorce can be very heart-breaking. There are some signs and indicators of divorce, so have a look at top 4 (four) signs, that psychologists terms as indicators of divorce.
Sign Number 1: Avoidance
A flower cannot survive without sunlight, same way, a relationship cannot survive without conversations. The situation gets worst if the conversation is intentionally being avoided by one, or both of the partners in the relation. Its this way because it keeps you from sorting out underlying issues.
Sign Number 2: Criticism
Well criticism includes, turning the behavior of someone (your partner in this case) into a statement of his/her character. This can cause worst feeling of resentment.
Sign Number 3: Contempt
It is a mixture of anger and disgust, and is more harmful then simple frustration or negativity, it involves seeing your partner as lower then you, instead of as seeing him/her as equal. Its a situation when you’re like you have closed yourself for your partners needs and emotions.
If you continuously feel that you’re smarter, sensitive and better then your partner, then it means you’re not willing to put yourself in his or her shoes to see the situation.
Sign Number 4: Defensiveness
If you always find yourself as the victim in tough situations with your partner, then you may be guilty of being defensive. It is uncomfortable to take responsibility of your role in tough situations, but it can control bad situations and help prevent bad situations from escalating.
